1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:00,000 2 00:00:08,040 --> 00:00:11,960 when it comes to leadership . The 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,310 things I learned from my father is 4 00:00:14,310 --> 00:00:17,190 patients not reacting to a situation 5 00:00:17,190 --> 00:00:19,620 just off the cuff , taking time and 6 00:00:19,630 --> 00:00:22,400 processing it . When my father gave me 7 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,730 my first salute , it was kind of a 8 00:00:24,740 --> 00:00:27,670 surreal moment and honestly I know I 9 00:00:27,670 --> 00:00:29,837 can , I can speak for myself on this . 10 00:00:29,837 --> 00:00:31,892 Like I never thought that would ever 11 00:00:31,892 --> 00:00:33,892 happen when I first enlisted in the 12 00:00:33,892 --> 00:00:36,059 marine Corps . So for that to happen , 13 00:00:36,059 --> 00:00:38,226 you know , almost 20 years later there 14 00:00:38,226 --> 00:00:38,200 was a great moment , something that 15 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,600 I'll always cherish and and look back 16 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,200 on to me . Being a father 17 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,422 means teaching them the things I wish I 18 00:00:46,422 --> 00:00:48,820 knew or the mistakes that I've made in 19 00:00:48,820 --> 00:00:51,160 the past and is helping them grow and 20 00:00:51,160 --> 00:00:53,160 navigate through this world at , at 21 00:00:53,160 --> 00:00:56,890 times is often confusing . I have a 22 00:00:56,890 --> 00:00:59,410 four year old son named Camillo and a 23 00:00:59,410 --> 00:01:01,521 three year old daughter named Sarah . 24 00:01:01,521 --> 00:01:03,440 They're great kids , a lot of 25 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,607 personality . So it's fun to be around 26 00:01:05,607 --> 00:01:07,710 them and watch them grow up and 27 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,831 discover new things about the world . 28 00:01:09,831 --> 00:01:11,942 And probably the thing I'm most proud 29 00:01:11,942 --> 00:01:13,942 about as a dad for them is how much 30 00:01:13,942 --> 00:01:16,053 they love each other and take care of 31 00:01:16,053 --> 00:01:18,950 each other being a platoon commander . 32 00:01:18,950 --> 00:01:21,890 You deal with , you know , tons of 33 00:01:21,890 --> 00:01:24,300 different situations um , when it comes 34 00:01:24,300 --> 00:01:26,570 to your marines and then I think about 35 00:01:26,570 --> 00:01:29,460 how if my kids were marines , what I 36 00:01:29,460 --> 00:01:31,516 would expect from , you know , their 37 00:01:31,516 --> 00:01:33,738 leadership . So I try to give that type 38 00:01:33,738 --> 00:01:35,960 of leadership to you know , the marines 39 00:01:35,960 --> 00:01:38,071 and give them that type of advice and 40 00:01:38,071 --> 00:01:40,560 mentor ship , Happy Father's today .